‘Babygirl’ Review: Nicole Kidman Is Fearless in an Erotic Office Drama About the Age of Control

As a seasoned cinephile who has witnessed numerous cinematic encounters that mirror the complexities of human relationships, I find myself utterly captivated by the raw and unapologetic portrayal of desire and power dynamics in “Babygirl.” The performances of Nicole Kidman and Barry Keoghan are nothing short of mesmerizing, their on-screen chemistry igniting a palpable tension that is both exhilarating and unsettling.


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To hint at its content, “Babygirl,” a drama revolving around a risky office affair directed by Halina Reijn (“Bodies Bodies Bodies”), begins with a close-up from above of Nicole Kidman riding an unseen partner passionately. The scene, filled with sensuality, resembles what used to be called a “steamy” movie sex scene. However, following their intimacy, as Antonio Banderas, portraying her husband, whispers “I love you,” Kidman swiftly departs to another room (quite feasible in their expansive Manhattan apartment). There, she frantically lies down on the floor in front of her computer and indulges in self-pleasure, watching a graphic incestuous video.

The humor lies in the portrayal of Kidman’s character, Romy, as a woman who seems to have everything perfect. She is the CEO of Tensile Automation, a high-tech e-commerce company that promises fast delivery through advanced robotics. Her family life also appears idyllic with a supportive husband, a renowned New York theater director, and two lively teenage daughters. Additionally, she enjoys a normal, healthy sex life. However, there’s a twist: she harbors secret, unconventional desires that bring her great pleasure. Essentially, she has it all, but not everything is in one place.

Initially, we find Romy within the office environment and in the promotional videos she produces for the company, where every optimistic phrase is scrutinized by market research, such as her emphasizing the “caring” nature of the company, despite its predominantly robotic structure leading to job losses (Romy views this as freeing them from monotonous tasks). The film subtly critiques contemporary corporate culture, but what makes it intriguing is the way it ties into Romy’s repressed sexuality and the impending office romance that could entangle her.

As I stand by Romy, her calm yet focused aura radiates as she diligently scans the information flowing from her phone, making her an exceptional multitasker and a strong leader in her own right. Beneath this facade, there’s a yearning in her that seeks to shatter her control, a desire for raw, uninhibited passion. The nickname “Babygirl” serves as a reminder that Romy isn’t the only one longing for freedom – it seems like an entire society, entangled in the web of technology and corporate routines, is craving to break free from the shackles of control. This desire to rebel against the confinement is echoed in all of us, mirroring the movie’s themes.

In this film, it’s Samuel (played by Harris Dickinson), one of the latest interns at the company, who will spark Romy’s imagination. This movie delves into an unconventional love story: A middle-aged boss finds herself attracted to a much younger colleague. If “Babygirl” were made two decades ago, it might have been marketed as a “cougar” fantasy. However, director Reijn takes a more insightful approach. Instead of focusing solely on their initial magnetic attraction, the film explores their relationship in a more nuanced way.

In a tour of Tensile’s expansive lower Broadway office, the two characters first cross paths. Interns are led into Romy’s office where Samuel inquisitively asks her a blunt question regarding the company’s robotic concept. The actor Dickinson, renowned from “The Iron Claw” and “Triangle of Sadness,” presents as a less polished Austin Butler. His character, Samuel, tells Romy before they even acknowledge each other, “I set the rules. By breaking yours.” This assertiveness is what makes him appealing. Despite their on-screen chemistry primarily revolving around the anticipation of rule-breaking, in “Babygirl” these actors are stunning, yet their interactions between Romy and Samuel at the office consist of increasingly hostile remarks disguised as flirtatious advances. Samuel skips over all pleasantries and polite conversation. His ‘flirting’ is more akin to aggressive provocation. This is why Romy finds it irresistible.

“Babygirl” transforms into an insightfully candid and amusing film exploring a controversial sadomasochistic relationship. In “The Innocents,” Reijn crafted a satirical slasher pulp atmosphere, but here she adopts a more authentic tone, executing it skillfully. The movie bears resemblance to “Fair Play” at times, yet it’s also an adultery story that elicits genuine emotional responses, much like “Unfaithful” did 20 years ago. This emotional resonance is largely due to the fearless acting of Kidman.

Straddling the identities of mother, boss, defiant adulterer, and trembling sexual supplicant, she’s like a walking mood ring. Her Romy takes off from a long-standing (hidden) reality: that people who are hooked on wielding power can have primal fantasies of being sexually submissive. For decades, prominent male executives have been keeping B&D sex workers in business, but in movies we haven’t seen the corporate gender tables turned in quite this way. For a while, “Babygirl” comes on like a less glossy “9½ Weeks,” as Samuel breaks down Romy’s defenses, notably in a scene where people from the office are having cocktails after work and he sends her over a drink … of milk. He’s saying, “You’re my baby girl.” And when she drinks it down, she’s saying, “Yes I am.”

In their hotel room encounter, Kidman displays a captivating blend of submission and resistance, her facial expressions revealing an intriguing battle of desire and self-preservation. She unveils the internal struggle tearing apart Romy, the character she portrays. However, it’s not just the S&M aspect that makes this affair perilous. It’s also the fact that Romy is flouting every corporate rule governing modern relationships in the workplace. The film’s clever tactic is its depiction of how Samuel exploits these work policies and their violation to entice Romy into transgressing boundaries. The allure of the illicit relationship with an intern from her own company, with the potential to destroy everything she has achieved, adds to the appeal. Kidman’s powerful performance hinges on portraying this dangerous recklessness as a deeply human response: the manifestation of a woman who is too fragmented to integrate the various aspects of herself. Caught in an erotic frenzy, her passion is infused with pain.

In a surprising twist for an “erotic thriller,” the film “Babygirl” refrains from the usual roller-coaster finale, instead focusing on portraying authentic female sexual experiences in today’s world of control. The movie features a traditional design and a captivating scene where the tattooed Samuel dances sensually to George Michael’s “Father Figure.” However, unlike films like “Fatal Attraction,” which mete out punishment for wrongdoings, this film seeks to free characters from their self-imposed torment. The plot takes unexpected turns, not because it’s trying to fuel the typical thriller plot, but rather to explore the complexities of modern female eroticism.

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2024-08-30 20:18