The 20 Best Slow-Burn Romance Movies of All Time

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Romance movies are so enjoyable because of the familiar patterns they follow. While anyone can fall in love, a story feels richer when it includes classic elements like initial conflict, enemies becoming lovers, or unrequited feelings. One of the most popular of these is the ‘slow burn’ – where characters take most of the movie to realize their feelings for each other and finally act on them.

The “will they/won’t they” dynamic, commonly seen in TV shows like The Office, Psych, and The O.C., is also a popular trope in movies. It appears in all kinds of romantic films, both historical and modern. This approach lets the audience enjoy a slow-burn romance that feels genuine and unforced. These movies are incredibly charming, and we’ve put together a list of some of the best examples.

‘People We Meet on Vacation’ (2026)


Netflix

Poppy Wright and Alex Nilsen, despite being very different people, have been taking a yearly vacation together for over ten years, staying connected through these trips. After a disagreement, they don’t see each other for two years, but Poppy invites Alex to a wedding in Barcelona, giving them a chance to reconnect. During the trip, they reminisce about past adventures and begin to understand they’ve had romantic feelings for each other for a long time.

The movie adaptation of People We Meet on Vacation received a varied response from book fans, with some finding it didn’t live up to the original. However, if you’re new to the story, it’s a sweet and captivating romance about friends who eventually fall in love. Beautiful scenery adds to the charm, especially for viewers who enjoy travel. Overall, it’s a delightful and slow-paced Netflix film perfect for anyone who loves a good love story and has a passion for exploring new places.

‘When Harry Met Sally’ (1989)


Columbia Pictures

It’s incredibly satisfying to watch a romance unfold over many years, and few films handle the ‘enemies to lovers’ story as well as When Harry Met Sally…. The movie centers on Harry and Sally, who are friends navigating a complicated connection. Harry is convinced men and women can’t truly be platonic, believing sex will always complicate things, while Sally disagrees. As fate repeatedly brings them together, they both change and ultimately risk their friendship to see if a romantic relationship is possible.

Written by Rob Reiner and Nora Ephron and directed by Reiner with a realistic touch, When Harry Met Sally… quickly became a beloved classic. Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal have wonderful chemistry as Sally and Harry. The film beautifully captures how romance can develop from playful arguments and everyday moments to bigger conflicts and, ultimately, unexpected connection. It expertly builds the tension of their will-they-won’t-they relationship, culminating in a memorable scene at Christmas.

‘The Remains of the Day’ (1993)


Columbia Pictures

I absolutely love The Remains of the Day! It’s a beautiful, old-fashioned story set in the English countryside, starting in the summer of ’58 but flashing back to the ’30s and ’60s. It follows Stevens, a very proper butler, and Miss Kenton, the housekeeper, and you really feel the slow, simmering romance between them. Anthony Hopkins and Emma Thompson are just incredible together – their chemistry is amazing, especially as they navigate things with their employer and hints about his past connections to the Nazi party. It’s a truly captivating film!

Stevens and Miss Kenton appear reserved at first, but the actors Hopkins and Thompson beautifully portray their hidden feelings and desires. Their quiet romance unfolds against the backdrop of a difficult wartime period, and while serving an employer they don’t respect. Directed with a delicate touch by James Ivory, The Remains of the Day finds deep meaning in the everyday.

‘Lost in Starlight’ (2025)


Netflix

Nan-young, a dedicated scientist, is driven to fulfill her mother’s dream by joining a space mission. Before leaving for space, she’s determined to repair a cherished childhood possession: a record player. This leads her to Jay, a talented musician and sound expert, who happily helps her fix it. As they work together, Nan-young and Jay begin to fall in love, but Nan-young’s strong commitment to her mission makes her hesitant to fully embrace her feelings.

Netflix’s South Korean animated film, Lost in Starlight, has been praised by both critics and viewers. The movie beautifully combines science fiction with a nostalgic style, creating a stunning backdrop for a sweet love story between two very different characters. Although the initial attraction happens quickly, the film carefully develops their connection, allowing their feelings to grow naturally. Those who enjoy sci-fi romance will particularly love the film’s visuals and themes of space exploration.

‘Me Before You’ (2016)


Warner Bros. Pictures

Be prepared to cry if you decide to watch this romance! Me Before You tells the story of Will Traynor (Sam Claflin), a man who was once a successful traveler but is now paralyzed and uses a wheelchair. Determined to end his life, he plans a trip to Switzerland. Before that happens, Lou (Emilia Clarke) becomes his caretaker, and over the weeks they spend together, a quiet love blossoms between them.

The popular film Me Before You, a People’s Choice Award winner for Favorite Dramatic Movie, resonates with audiences for many reasons. Emilia Clarke and Sam Claflin deliver compelling performances, fully embodying their characters’ challenges and victories. Sam Claflin’s portrayal of Will is particularly nuanced; his journey to accept love and appreciate life’s precious moments is beautifully brought to life through Thea Sharrock’s direction. The film also boasts stunning scenery, well-developed characters, and a deeply moving conclusion that is both heartbreaking and lovely.

‘Set It Up’ (2018)


Netflix

If you’re a fan of romantic comedies, especially those with a workplace setting and a bit of playful tension, you should definitely watch Set It Up. It’s one of the best in recent years! The movie follows Harper and Charlie, two assistants completely overwhelmed by their demanding bosses. They hatch a plan to set their bosses up with each other, hoping it will make their own lives easier. But as they try to play matchmaker, they unexpectedly start to fall for each other, leading to plenty of complications and fantastic chemistry.

Glen Powell and Zoey Deutch star in the new romantic comedy Anyone but You, which many believe will become a beloved classic. While the movie centers on a romance between their bosses, the chemistry between Powell and Deutch often steals the scene. Overall, it’s a refreshing and enjoyable film.

‘Emma’ (2020)


Focus Features

Set in 19th-century England, Emma follows the story of Emma, a privileged young woman who enjoys matchmaking for her friends. Though she’s known for playing Cupid, she remains single herself. Meanwhile, Mr. Knightley is deeply in love with Emma and consistently shows his affection, but they don’t finally end up together until the very end of the story.

Jane Austen’s stories have been adapted for the screen many times, and the 2020 version of Emma is particularly charming. It’s full of both excitement and heartwarming romance as the characters grow and change. The film beautifully recreates the period with gorgeous settings and costumes. If you enjoyed the passionate love stories in Bridgerton – like Simon’s famous declaration to Daphne – you’ll find a similar intensity in Emma. Mr. Knightley’s feelings for Emma are so strong, they’re wonderfully captivating.

‘Spellbound’ (2011)


CJ Entertainment

Down-on-his-luck street magician Ma Jo-goo, played by Lee Min-ki, hopes to revive his act by adding a spooky, supernatural element, and he finds inspiration in the mysterious Kang Yeo-ri (Son Ye-jin). He takes her on as his assistant, unaware that she’s been seeing ghosts since a childhood accident. Despite Kang being easily frightened herself, Ma finds himself increasingly drawn to her, but her ghostly encounters create problems for their blossoming connection.

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Though Spellbound might not be considered one of the top Korean romantic comedies by most reviewers, it offers something unique with its slow pace and slightly spooky atmosphere. The movie cleverly highlights how couples often have one partner who’s more easily scared by horror films, and it uses supernatural elements to enhance the romantic storyline. Ultimately, Spellbound is a story about accepting each other’s differences – a theme that resonates with many couples, even within its fantastical setting.

‘The Sound of Music’ (1965)


20th Century Fox

It’s surprising that such a beloved love story unfolds against the dangerous rise of the Nazis. The Sound of Music is a well-known tale featuring Julie Andrews, who plays Maria, a governess who brings joy to the seven children of Captain Von Trapp after his wife passes away. Set during World War II, the story follows Maria and the Captain’s family as they are eventually forced to make a difficult decision: stay loyal to their country, pursue freedom, or follow their hearts.

Julie Andrews shines in The Sound of Music, bringing a hopeful and cheerful energy to a time darkened by war. Her connection with the von Trapp family makes the story even more memorable. The film builds beautifully, showing the children bonding with Maria before George ever shows any interest in her, and their eventual romance is genuinely heartwarming. Ultimately, it’s a beloved, classic, and visually stunning story about love.

‘While You Were Sleeping’ (1995)


Buena Vista Pictures Distribution, Inc.

Starring Sandra Bullock and Bill Pullman, this romantic drama tells the story of Lucy, a train station worker secretly in love with a daily commuter. When Peter is attacked and falls onto the tracks, Lucy saves his life and takes him to the hospital. While he’s in a coma, unable to communicate, she pretends to be his fiancée to his family. As the lie continues, Lucy develops feelings for Peter’s brother, Jack, and a romance blossoms between them.

“While You Were Sleeping” is a charming and heartwarming movie, especially enjoyable during the Christmas season. Sandra Bullock and Bill Pullman deliver fantastic performances as Lucy and Jack, characters who grow and change thanks to an unexpected situation. The film is both funny and smart, making it a beloved and endlessly rewatchable romantic comedy.

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2026-02-15 02:06