Love Is Blind’s Sparkle Meg Explains the Deciding Factor in Her Breakup

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Megan Walerius from season nine of Love Is Blind was the only cast member who drew attention from the paparazzi while filming in Denver, Colorado. Netflix clearly presented her as a central figure from the start, using Gwen Stefani’s “Rich Girl” as she walked into the pods and focusing on her expensive shoes and jewelry – earning her the nickname “Sparkle Megan.” She explained in a confessional that she believes men are intimidated by her success and lifestyle. Despite Mike Brockway’s attempts to win her over, Megan got engaged to Jordan Keltner, a single father who worked as a bank branch manager and had a peculiar habit of drinking baked chicken smoothies. Although they had noticeable lifestyle differences, their relationship initially seemed promising – Jordan even jokingly said he’d only back out of the engagement if Megan hit their dog, Luca. Even though Jordan hesitated about Megan’s suggestion to take out a $500,000 loan for a house together, they seemed determined to make it work.

Ultimately, Walerius ended things with Keltner, feeling they lived separate lives and she needed a partner who could share quiet moments with her after work. While she questioned whether she was ready for motherhood at the end of their time together, she and her partner, Paul, welcomed their son, Brooks, a few months before reconnecting for the show. Now, she says she’s a confident mother and is happy she didn’t let her fears stop her from having a child. “It was one of the best decisions I ever made,” she shared.

So, I actually did buy a place in Denver! I’ve been looking into the numerology of the address, and it turns out it adds up to a ‘three,’ which is supposed to be all about family, being social, and having fun – which I love! The only downside to a ‘three’ house is that it can make you a little too free with your spending, and honestly, that’s been totally me. I did a full remodel, and my bedroom was my favorite part – we were going for that super-chic Emily in Paris look. I definitely went over budget, but you know what? It’s worth it. If that’s the biggest problem with the house, I’m happy with it!

So, you’re saying Jordan found out about your baby after someone messaged him, claiming you had a child with Mike. If that hadn’t happened, when were you planning on telling him? Were you hoping to share the news at the reunion? It sounds like you always intended to tell him beforehand, but you’d kept the pregnancy private for a long time and were waiting until the last possible moment. You and Jordan had already discussed getting together for lunch before the reunion, but someone else brought it up first. Even though the message wasn’t entirely true, you felt it was important to be the one to tell him yourself and make sure he heard the real story.

I don’t think Jordan knew about my relationship until I told him. We didn’t talk for almost a year after we broke up, and I mostly kept to myself and didn’t spend much time with the others from our group. So, he probably wouldn’t have heard about it from anyone else.

It seems the cast in Denver became really close after filming wrapped. I chose to take a step back because the experience was so emotionally draining, and I needed space to focus on my own well-being. I was also in the process of moving back to Denver from Los Angeles during that time, so I wasn’t around much when they were socializing. It sounds like they had a great time, but I missed out on things like that pool party.

We have a group chat on Instagram with everyone from our group – both guys and girls. A few people have left, which is understandable, but it’s usually a lot of fun. Today, everyone was wishing Patrick a happy birthday. The girls also have a separate chat, though it’s not used as much, and there are a couple of smaller chats too.

Watching the reunion, I noticed a lot of people seemed to have strong feelings about Kacie, and honestly, it was tough to see as her friend. It didn’t really surprise me, though. I think everyone needs to remember she’s just a person, and people make mistakes. Maybe she didn’t always handle things perfectly, but I really feel for her. It’s heartbreaking to see all the negativity and hate she’s getting, and I truly hope people can show a little more kindness.

You told one cast member about your pregnancy before anyone else. Thinking back, what’s the most ridiculous or unbelievable reason you gave someone to avoid seeing them while you were keeping it a secret? I think I just told people I was really busy. Even Jordan asked to get lunch, and I just said maybe in a couple of months when things slowed down!

Did they ever consider including Luca in the wedding? Yes, but Jordan and Luca’s mother were hesitant about him being filmed for most of the show, which is understandable. As the wedding date got closer, everyone debated whether or not he should be involved. Eventually, Skylar agreed to let him attend, and that was a big factor in Jordan and my decision. While the breakup might seem sudden on TV, we had actually been talking about it for a week. We both agreed that we wouldn’t go through with the wedding if Luca wasn’t on board.

It would have been really difficult to break up at the wedding with Luca around – it would have been confusing for him as a child. Absolutely.

You mentioned Jordan introduced you to Luca as his future wife and someone he’d be living with. Was that unexpected for you? It definitely took me by surprise. We were very committed at the time, and both Jordan and I were confident in our future together. However, it created a lot of pressure. Looking back, Jordan admitted he probably would have handled things differently.

Were you hoping to have a chance to say goodbye to Luca or explain what happened? I mostly just followed Jordan’s direction during that scene. There was a part we didn’t film where I asked Jordan if he needed anything, but he said he’d take care of it.

I did consider whether Mike was too much like my usual type. But with Paul, it was different. I’m actually really amused by what people are saying about him online – it’s all so funny! They’re calling him a real estate tycoon, which isn’t true at all. Honestly, Paul is quite different from the men I’ve dated before. We’re on the same page financially and have similar lifestyles, but he’s also very emotionally aware.

We both went through this intensive personal growth experience called the Hoffman Process. It really pushes you to examine old habits and beliefs formed during childhood, particularly those learned from your parents. We’ve both been working on ourselves a lot, and Paul has been especially helpful in teaching me how to be more open and vulnerable. I know you all share things in your groups, but it feels very different being vulnerable in person, especially with someone you’re just getting to know. He’s been fantastic at creating that space.

How did you first find out about the paparazzi pictures of you, Paul, and Brooks?
What’s funny is there was never a shot of the three of us together, or me with baby. Paul had a buddy who was riding his bike, and went out to go say hi to him. And they got me while I was out running errands. I don’t remember who first texted me about it, but my first concern was the safety of my son. Even if they’re harmless, just knowing somebody’s following you and watching you is scary. So unfortunately, this past week, we’ve basically been hiding in the house. I’ve gotten out to do a couple errands here and there, but it’s like, no way I’m bringing my baby out now.

I saw some chatter online asking if I’d actually called the paparazzi on myself, which is just…no. And honestly, looking at the photos they got, I could have picked a much better angle. Thanks a lot, everyone!

In the show’s final moments, you questioned whether you were prepared for motherhood. When you found out you were pregnant, how concerned were you about that? A lot of people online have assumed this pregnancy was unplanned, but Paul and I were actually trying to conceive. Even though we were trying, it was still frightening to realize I was pregnant and wonder if I was ready. I absolutely had my doubts, and I allowed myself to feel them. Now, looking back, I’m a little sad I wasn’t more confident.

You mentioned motherhood has shown you the importance of selflessness. Has becoming a mom meant giving up anything you used to enjoy? Well, Brooks is only three months old, so the first couple of months were definitely a big change – things like going out to eat or traveling were put on hold, and sleep definitely became a luxury! I’ve always loved my sleep, so that’s been tough, but it’s completely worth it. I’m realizing that you can still have the life you want while being a good mom. Now that we’re sharing this news, we’re excited to start traveling as a family. We’ve already taken him to L.A. for a reunion, which was great, and even before that, Paul, baby Brooks, and I would regularly go out for meals.

We’re aiming for a parenting style similar to what’s common in Europe – one where the baby fits into our existing life, rather than completely changing it. We’ve definitely had to adjust, and we’re happy to do so, but it’s been great to still be able to enjoy a normal life with our baby included.

I noticed your work schedule seemed flexible on the show, and I was curious how that’s changed now that you’re a mom. How many hours are you working each week? Well, after moving back to Denver and finishing the show, I took a step back from that work. And now, as a new mom, I’ve really focused on my baby and family. My business partners in L.A. are still handling things, which is great. It’s been a welcome change to prioritize family, as my career used to be my main focus. I might return to the business someday, but it was nice to take a break and enjoy this time.

Yes, Paul and I have definitely discussed getting married. It’s something we’ve talked about a lot, and we were actually close to getting engaged last fall. But things moved so quickly with the show, I suggested we slow down and take some time to think. I’m glad we did. We’ve been together for just over a year, and we’ve learned a lot about each other, especially now that we’re parents and figuring out how to raise our baby. We’re really happy together and are even thinking about having more children.

When asked about having more children, she said they definitely want at least one more. Her husband, Paul, would love to have five, but she jokingly pointed out he’d be the one carrying the baby! She also mentioned she had a surprisingly easy pregnancy.

Looking back at the reunion, I really wanted to make sure everyone understood that Jordan and I are in a good place now. We both went through a tough time after the breakup, and I think some people see me as the one who did something wrong, but it was a difficult period for me too. Ultimately, I made the best decision for myself, and I fully stand by that. I just hope people can see that Jordan and I are still friendly and supportive of each other. I have a lot of respect for him and always will, and I truly want him to be happy. I’m proud of how maturely we’ve both handled everything.

I keep hearing about Jordan Peele’s children’s book, ‘Dear Luca,’ and I really need to pick up a copy! I actually messaged him saying I want to get a few – especially one for my son, Brooks. I think it would make a perfect gift this holiday season.

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2025-11-04 02:01